Saturday, 19 April 2025

“Hands Within Hands: The Real Success We Forget to Count”

From Nothing to Something: A Gloriously Funny Guide to Becoming a Walking Miracle

Egg to Bird. Tiny Seed to Tall Tree. Little Cell to Real-Life Wonder.


Isn’t it wild? The tiniest things become the most extraordinary. Life doesn’t ask for perfection to begin—it just starts. Quietly. Clumsily. And before we know it, we’re walking, talking, loving, losing, learning, forgetting Wi-Fi passwords, and somehow becoming someone. You didn’t need to be ready. You just needed to begin. And look at you now—a walking miracle with snack cravings and a soul that still hopes.


Because the best things in life? They start small and get weirdly, wonderfully real.


We all started off as a blob with big dreams.

Yet somehow, look at us now—walking, talking, hustling, forgetting passwords, misplacing keys, overthinking texts, and occasionally (accidentally) inspiring someone. 😅


Life is wild.


Let’s pause for a moment and appreciate the miracle that is YOU—yes, the one reading this while trying to multitask between ambition and existential dread.


The Glow-Up of the Universe: From Zero to WOW

The universe is the master of the ultimate glow-up.

From “absolutely nothing” to…well, Beyoncé, books, mangoes, memes, and you—yes, YOU, with your 3 a.m. thoughts and 47 open tabs.


Let’s break it down:


An egg becomes a bird — flapping into freedom (unless it’s a penguin, then waddling into greatness).


A tiny seed becomes a tree — rooted, growing tall, giving shade, and occasionally getting peed on by dogs (life’s sense of humor).


A single cell becomes a human — complete with emotions, opinions, and questionable Wi-Fi signals.


Ignorance turns into insight — after a few hundred “oops” moments and a couple of well-timed breakdowns.


And wisdom? It’s just knowledge that’s been emotionally processed… with stretch marks. #TruthHurts


Storytime: The Day I Felt Like a Human Disaster (and Still Grew Anyway)

One time, I completely bombed a presentation. I had prepped, practiced, even wore my “I mean business” shoes. But guess what? Mid-sentence, I forgot what I was saying, froze, and ended the talk with, “So yeah… that’s that.”


Awkward silence.


But after the presentation, someone came up and said, “You looked so calm. I wish I could present like you.”


Life lesson? We rarely see our own progress when we’re busy magnifying our stumbles. Someone else might be looking at your mess and calling it magic.


Reflective Activity: Your Personal Glow-Up Timeline

Grab a piece of paper (or open Notes—yes, the one where you write random grocery lists). Now jot down:


One thing you were scared of five years ago that you’ve now mastered.


One personal failure that taught you more than any textbook.


One moment you made someone smile without even trying.


That’s progress. That’s something. That’s YOU, becoming.


Success, Failure, and That Thing in Between

You know that feeling when you try really hard and... nothing goes according to plan?

Congratulations—you’re alive.


But here’s the twist:

Whether you succeed successfully or fail successfully (yes, that’s a thing), you’re still moving.

You’re still becoming.

You’re not static.

You’re a story in progress—a hilarious, tear-filled, beautiful mess of a story.


Authenticity Is the Real Flex (and the Sanity-Saver)

You don’t need to glow up like Instagram says.

You don’t have to be a brand.

You’re a being.


Living.

Loving.

Sometimes crying into your pillow.

Sometimes dancing in your kitchen at 2 a.m. to a song you pretended not to like.


Let that be enough.


Be weird. Be wild. Be wonderfully you.

Because there’s already one Beyoncé. What the world needs now is the most authentic version of you.


Hands Within Hands: The Real Riches We Forget

Here’s something truly precious:


The people who check in on you without asking for anything.


The ones who send you dumb memes just to make you laugh.


The ones who show up, even when you forgot to text back for three weeks.


The ones who remind you to “eat something,” “rest,” or “breathe.”


The ones who love you when you forget how to love yourself.


These people?

They are life’s real gold. 


Let’s live for the ones who help us live.

Let’s be the hands that hold someone up when they’re about to fall.


Story #2: When a Cookie Saved My Sanity

After a really hard day (think bills, deadlines, existential dread), I sat on the couch and just stared at the ceiling.

My kid walked in, handed me a cookie, and said, “Here. You forgot to smile today.”


I laughed. Then cried. Then ate the cookie.


That day, I didn’t solve any major problem.

But I felt human. And that’s something.


Final Words to the Tired Yet Trying Human:

You’re not a failure.

You’re a force in progress.


You’ve come from dust, DNA, divine timing, and determination.

You’ve turned “nothing” into “something” more times than you’ve realized.


Every smile after a storm.

Every laugh after loss.

Every brave “I’ll try again tomorrow.”


That’s a victory. That’s becoming. That’s YOU.


Last Activity: A Note to Future You 

Write a short letter to your future self. Keep it simple. One sentence is enough.

Here’s a prompt:

“I know you’re still figuring it out, but I’m proud of you for…”


Seal it.

Or take a screenshot.

Open it in six months. Smile.


So When You Feel Small, Stuck, or Spiraling…

Remember the egg. The seed. The zygote.

They had no clue what they were becoming.

And yet, they became everything.


Even failure done with honesty is a success in disguise.

Just add humor, humanity, and a little dance break.


Now go hug your people. Eat that cookie. Try again tomorrow.

And let life know—it hasn’t seen the best of you yet. 😉


1 comment:

  1. "And let life know—it hasn’t seen the best of you yet." Very well written 👏👏👏👏

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